The Myth of Infidelity
Infidelity. Just the word carries enough weight to ruin lives, spark arguments, and drive people to do the unthinkable. But what if the very concept of cheating is a sham? What if it’s not a moral failure—but a natural instinct? One that’s been hijacked, manipulated, and sold back to us through culture, religion, and control systems disguised as tradition?
This isn’t a defense of dishonesty. This is a demolition of delusion.
Because the truth is: no one owns anyone. Not in dating. Not in marriage. Not even in the “till death do us part” fantasy. Ownership isn’t love. Control isn’t commitment. And fidelity? That idea was engineered to keep people obedient.
Monogamy Isn’t Natural—It’s Imposed
Let’s talk biology. Monogamy isn’t in our DNA. If it were, staying “faithful” wouldn’t feel like a chore. We wouldn’t need vows, contracts, surveillance apps, or Sunday sermons to enforce it.
The human sexual instinct—like our creative, social, and exploratory instincts—thrives on variation. And yet, we’re told that if you truly love someone, you’ll only desire them. That’s a beautiful idea. But it’s not reality.
Monogamy is a man-made box. People don’t cheat because they’re broken—they cheat because they’re alive.
Jealousy Is a Signal, Not a Standard
When someone steps outside the sexual exclusivity contract, the reaction isn’t often reflection. It’s rage. Betrayal. Insecurity. But where do those emotions actually come from?
Not morality—programming.
We’ve been trained to believe that sex outside a monogamous container is wrong. But what if jealousy isn’t love? What if it’s a symptom—of unhealed wounds, low self-worth, and cultural conditioning?
What if “cheating” isn’t a moral failure, but a mirror? One showing us just how much of our identity is tangled up in someone else’s behavior?
The Bible Didn’t Fail—You’re Just Reading the Edited Version
Let’s get religious.
The Bible is the go-to weapon for justifying possessiveness. But the version most people quote? It’s not the full story. It’s a curated, politically edited, Roman-approved translation of ancient writings filtered through centuries of empire and agenda.
The original Hebrew texts—and the ones that were conveniently excluded—paint a far messier, more human picture of love, sex, and relationship. But modern Christianity doesn’t explore those. It loops. It repeats. It reinforces itself by recycling verses out of context to win debates, not seek truth.
Worse, it ignores the structure of 3, 6, and 9—the universal math of energy, frequency, and vibration. Closed-loop religion fears the unknown, so it fights to control the known. Especially your body.
Infidel: Redefined
Here’s the dictionary definition:
Infidel — a person who does not believe in religion or who adheres to a religion other than one’s own.
Let that sink in.
If you’ve ever questioned the rules, ever explored beyond dogma, ever chosen truth over tribalism—you’re an infidel. And that’s not an insult. That’s a compliment.
It means you’ve broken the loop.
So… Who’s Actually Winning?
The one who cheats? The one who gets cheated on? The one who stays loyal for appearance’s sake?
None of them.
The winner is the one who dismantles the illusion. The one who chooses truth over tradition. The one who says:
“I don’t own you. I get to experience you. And if that experience evolves, we evolve too.”
Fidelity isn’t about locking yourself in a cage. It’s not about suffering silently to appear “devoted.” It’s about loyalty to growth. To honesty. To freedom.
The biggest betrayal?
Not sleeping with someone else.
Lying to yourself about what you really want.
So ask yourself again:
Who’s actually winning?
Because once you see through the myth, you don’t go back.
You burn the box.
And you walk away free.